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Gail Post, Ph.D.'s avatar

I appreciate your ackinowledgement that trauma does not have to define one's life trajectory. As a clinical psychologist, I am well aware that there has been a trend toward sometimes an overidentification with one's diagnosis or label or the assumption that trama defines them. In a recent literature review I did for a special issue on resilience for Gifted Education International, it seemed clear that many children do not suffer long-term consequences from ACE's, even though some do. An appreciation of the struggles some have endured, yet encouragement to recognize their strengths, is essential to avoid feeling "damaged" by their experiences and recognize that they can move past them and even thrive.

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Shelby's avatar

I'm pleased to see that there's increasing attention on ACE, especially since cPTSD is not yet included in the DSM. I recognize that everyone experiences trauma differently, both in terms of level and severity. However, I believe we should categorize trauma into three groups for clarity.

I've worked with clients who have cPTSD, those who experienced trauma after age 18 without military involvement, and others with combat-related trauma. While all these experiences are valid, my therapeutic approach varies significantly depending on the type of trauma. For instance, a client who experienced sexual trauma as a child requires a different approach than someone who has faced combat trauma. Additionally, there are individuals who have experienced trauma after 18 without any military context, less common, but still needing a different approach.

I always start by asking clients to identify their trauma. I inquire about their earliest emotional memories, focusing first on positive experiences before exploring what they consider their first traumatic memory. Some clients may have repressed memories that emerge later, especially with techniques like EMDR.

I also delve into their attachment styles and the roles their parents played in their upbringing. I find it helpful to refer to Erik Erikson's model to determine if there are stages where they might have become stuck. I have found, more often than not, they don’t recognize this.

I also incorporate a reality, existential, and logotherapy approach in my work. While I begin by addressing their past, my goal is to shift their focus to the present. I believe that their past experiences shouldn't weigh them down; instead, we work on transforming that energy into something positive and constructive for their current lives.

Anyhoo, this makes me happy to see this shift. Research is increasing and stigma is decreasing. 🎉

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