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Paula Ghete's avatar

I tend to have a problem with optimism or confidence that is not bounded by reason or facts. For example, having a growth mindset means believing that you can increase your intelligence (significantly). But as far as I know, increasing intelligence is not exactly easy (possible?), so isn't this belief a bit unreasonable?

Like you, I believe that we should all try to improve, become better people, and make progress for as long as we live - it's something that adds a lot of depth, meaning, and pleasure to life. But I would say that our optimism should be bounded by reason and facts - something that does not necessarily remove our motivation, but rather directs it.

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Lisa Bennett's avatar

One of her comments went to the heart. She was first row, first seat, so essentially she spent her energy protecting her territory. I was tested as a genius in 4th grade and in retrospect feel that this was a burden. I put so much expectation on myself and my performance. And so did others. It was like maneuvering from a rigid box at the top of a pile. It would have been healthier for me if I hadn’t been given my score, and the approach had been in problem solving, recovering from failure, and expansion. I went on to study psychology because I really wanted to understand how the mind works. I thought I was strange.

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