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Usual obvious margined-up stuff. It’ll be unfashionable in a year and the new Gurus will muscle in. Remember “In Search of Excellence” and “The Balanced Scorecard”. I’m a retired management consultant with a PhD in Psychology, like the vast majority of research in social psychology it’s 99% bull droppings.

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This is one of the clearest articulations I’ve seen on the distinction between empathy and compassion—especially how compassion includes the bandwidth to act without collapse. That nuance often gets lost in spiritual and leadership circles alike.

I also appreciate the reframing of the “quiet ego” not as ego death, but as ego integration. So many frameworks talk about transcendence or self-awareness, but miss how functional leadership arises not from disowning the self but from stabilizing it enough to include others. The nod to SDT was especially resonant—autonomy and connection really do create the foundation for sustainable, not performative, leadership.

What struck me most, though, is how much of this scaffolding invites leaders to become more human, not more idealized. Thank you for helping translate science into clarity without dilution.

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